I have added a couple of new web links,

1. A psychiatrist talking about his work with adoptees and addiction.  He describes the neurology of an infant separated from its mother at birth as enormous loss and grief.

2. A Chilean inter country adoptee working with healing and performing arts, describing the fear of connection in relationship – with anyone including therapists

3. A therapist who is an adoptive mother writes about learning to listen and respect adoptees as the experts in their own lives.